HOW WILL YOU KNOW THE RIGHT PERSON TO MARRY?
Beloved, marriage is one area that every person does not want to make mistakes, even those that doesn’t go to church and those that are not saved.
Every person wants to marry the RIGHT PERSON. I have often heard this statement, THERE IS NO RIGHT PERSON OR PERFECT PERSON, that the issue is that we make our selves right first.
My little study of the word of God has shown me that marriage is SPIRITUAL. WHY did I say that, IT ORIGINATES FROM GOD and God is spiritual. See Gen. 2:18.
So for us to want to seek His will and do it, we must be first of all connected to God in the spirit, get born again and start to follow Jesus, learn how he talks, develop intimacy.
It is when it comes to marriage, everybody wants to HEAR WHAT GOD IS SAYING. It really surprises me. Now let us get the ball rolling:
There is a light in the spirit that resonates within you, that you just know this is the right person.
It is not dreams, not visions, not prophecy, not feelings, not signs, not suggestions but A KNOWING.
Go with me: 1 Samuel 18:1
The soul of Jonathan and David knit even when they had not communicated with each other. This should be the way intending partners should knit.
Go with me further: Gen. 2:23,
What made Adam to say THIS IS NOW THE BONE OF MY BONE AND FLESH OF MY FLESH WHEN HE SAW EVE. This is what I call SPIRIT-KNOWING.
1. In your choice of a marriage partner, SPIRIT-KNOWING is central. This has to be when the spirit is alive and vibrant.
Your emotions must not come in when your spirit wants to know. Your spirit must rise above pressures of the body.
Evil thoughts must also be removed. ATTEND TO YOUR SPIRIT LIFE. By doing this, it will take care of your emotions, body pressures and thoughts.
Let me say this before I forget, God speaks to us in various ways through dreams, visions, revelations, trance, prophecy, word of God, audible voice, by inner witness in our spirit, through his servants. This is no disputable truth.
But, you MUST NOT RELY ON ONLY ANY OF THESE MEANS. YOU MUST HEAR GOD IN YOUR SPIRIT. SPIRIT CONNECTION IS THE KEY.
I as a person don’t like this means of pray for me to know who God want me to marry from these names. Friends, God wants you to sit down and develop your spirit and know it.
It is when you have known then, there is nothing wrong when you ask those ahead of you in God to pray along with you. Then whatever they receive, if it from God, will now be in line or as a confirmation to what you already know in your spirit or have seen in your revelation.
Stop all these seeing vision for me and moving from one place to the other. It is so dangerous.
God bless you.
To be continued……