Don’t marry a Person because he or she has what you WANT.
Marry a person who has and can give you what you NEED.
Food, Shelter, and Clothing are NEEDS
Breakfast in London, Lunch in Kuwait, and Dinner in Dubai, A House on Banana island, and expensive Jewleries are WANTS
Comfort is a NEED.
Luxury is a WANT.
Don’t marry a Man who promises to take you round the world (a want), but can’t help you with the Word (a Need)
Don’t Marry a Woman who has a beautiful face, shapes and curves (you WANT this) but can’t give you Peace of Mind and be of help to your Life’s Purpose (you NEED this)
Don’t Marry a Man or Woman who promises you luxury but can’t give you basic comfort, happiness, freedom, love, intimacy. Etc
You NEED a Man who won’t abuse you physically or emotionally
You NEED a Woman who can respect and submit to you as you do the same for her.
You NEED a Man who will listen to you
You NEED a Team Player who can build and grow you and with you.
You NEED a Man/Woman with same mindsets and ideologies as you.
If you marry a Person that you WANT, but don’t NEED, a person who can fulfil your Wants but leave you with your Needs unmet, you will live a luxurious, flamboyant but empty Life.
You Want someone that you Love.
You Need someone that loves you and is compatible with You.
Relax, God always offers the full package.
In God, there is someone who can and will meet both your WANTS and NEEDS combined.
Don’t Settle for Less.
You can have EVERYTHING
Wait, Pray, Discern.
Most importantly, your needs, not your wants should be your priority.
GOD GIVE ME WHAT I NEED
AND NOT WHAT I WANT
WHAT I NEED IS GREATER THAN WHAT I WANT
God please give me what I need
And not what I want