Every Friday, my husband takes the children to school. They’re his children, so it shouldn’t be a massive deal for a father to take his very own kids to college. Yet final Friday, a chum noticed him at drop-off and straight away texted me saying, “You are so fortunate. I couldn’t get my husband to drop off except I become withinside the hospital. And even then …”

This isn’t always the primary time I’ve been informed I’m fortunate to have an excellent husband. It’s a lovable compliment, in theory, commonly coming from a fellow spouse and mother probably lamenting the deficiencies of her very own guy. I’ve been informed I’m fortunate that my husband appears to dote on me and that he appears to (if Facebook is a fact teller) like to do thrilling matters with the children that don’t require my help. I’ve been informed I’m fortunate that my husband is supportive of my profession, and that he adjustments his paintings agenda once I have a assembly or paintings travel.

Basically, I’ve been informed I’m fortunate for him being and doing precisely what a husband or spouse is meant to do for his or her spouse.

Don’t get me wrong — I suppose my man is great. He desires to be as concerned a discern as his time and strength allow. He believes in me greater than I consider in myself and frequently makes use of his very own difficult earned connections and contacts to similarly my profession and aid my goals. He is going out of his manner to make certain I get time to squeeze in such things as exercising and time with my buddies on evenings or weekends. And he does his first-class to agenda round occasions at our kids’s college so he can take part and be there to aid them as well.

There’s no guide on the way to be an excellent husband