βDonβt shout at your wife when you are talking. It really hurts her. (Proverbs 15:1)
βDo not speak evil of her to anyone. Your wife will become who you call her. (Gen. 2:19)
βDo not share her love or affection with another woman. It is called Adultery. (Matt. 5:28)
βNever compare your wife to another woman. If the other woman was good for you, God would have given her to you. (2 Cor. 10:12)
βDonβt ever allow her to beg you for sex. She owns your body just as you own her body. (1 Cor. 7:5)
βBe gentle and accommodating. She has sacrificed so much to be with you. It hurts her deeply when you are hash and irritating. Be tender. (Eph. 4:2)
βHide nothing from her. You are now one and sheβs your helpmeet. Let there be no secret you are keeping from her. (Gen. 2:25)
βDo not make negative comment about her body. She risked her life and beauty to carry your babies. She is a living soul not just flesh and blood.
βDo not let her body determine her worth. Cherish and appreciate her even till old age. (Eph. 5:29)
βNever shout at her in the public and in private. If you have an issue to sort with her, do it in the privacy of your room. (Matt. 1:19)
βThank and appreciate her for taking good care of you, the kids and the house. It is a great sacrifice she is making. (1 The 5:18)
βAll women cannot cook the same way; appreciate your wifeβs food. It is not easy to cook three meals a day, 365 days a year for several years. (Pro. 31:14)
βNever place your siblings before her. She is your wife. She is one with you. She must come before your family. (Gen. 2:24)
βInvest seriously in her spiritual growth. Buy books, tapes and any material that will edify her and strengthen her walk with God. Thatβs the best thing you can do for her. (Eph. 5:26)
βSpend time with her to do Bible study and pray. (James 5:16)
βMake time to play with her and enjoy her company. Remember when you are dead, sheβs gonna be by your grave but your friends may be too busy to attend your funeral. (Ecc. 9:9)
βNever use money to manipulate or control her. All your money belongs to her. She is a joint heir with you of the grace of God. (1 Pet. 3:7)
βDo not expose her weakness. You will be exposing yourself too. Be a shield around her. (Eph. 5:30)
βHonour her parents and be kind to her siblings. (SOS 8:2)
βNever cease to tell her how much you love her all the days of her life. Women are never tired of hearing that. (Eph. 5:25)
βGrow to be like Christian ,Thatβs the only way you can be a good and godly husband. (Rom. 8:29)
