1. She speaks to him with a caring tone

2. She gives him peace

3. She doesn’t compare him with other men; she inspires him to be the best version of himself

4. She doesn’t shout or scold him as if he is incompetent

5. She doesn’t belittle him when he is down or going through loss

6. She corrects him lovingly in private; away from the children and the public

7. She doesn’t announce to people the things she has done for him and how he would be nothing without her

8. She brings to attention his few weaknesses without forgetting his many strengths

9. She doesn’t give him silent treatment to punish him

10. She doesn’t say hurtful things just because she is mad

11. She acknowledges his good traits in private and in public

12. She doesn’t do mean things to teach him a lesson

13. She suggests instead of ordering

14. She doesn’t treat him well only when the pastor or in-laws are watching. Her treatment is consistent, not a show

15. She gives him room to lead and participate; involving him in coming up with decisions