1. THE WIFE IS DENYING HIM SEX

When the wife has a tendency of making excuses for not making love or she is ever disinterested in matters sexual, some husbands resort to touching themselves to satisfy the need. Wives, don’t push your husband away

2. THEY HAVE A HISTORY OF MASTURBATION

Some men started masturbating in their teen years or young adult days; most of them because they did not want to sleep around. Now that they are married, they are struggling to stop. Be careful husband, when you are used to giving yourself pleasure, you might not desire your wife as much and your marriage will be affected

3. TO PREVENT THEMSELVES FROM CHEATING

Some husbands do this so that they don’t cheat on their wives. Once a man has had a climax, the urge to flirt with another woman dwindles. Some also when they find themselves attracted to another woman, they masturbate thinking about that other woman to finish the desire. This can be dangerous especially if you masturbate thinking of another woman, you might want to graduate and sleep with that woman

4. THE WIFE IS SICK OR PREGNANT

When the wife is going through a health challenge or pregnancy has affected her sexual ability, or when she cannot make love weeks after giving birth; the husband’s sexual desires don’t go, so some men instead of chasing another woman, they touch themselves

5. TO HAVE PHONE SEX WITH THE WIFE

When a kinky couple is in a long-distance marriage, instead of suffering in the distance as they go for months without an orgasm; some couples opt to sexually stimulate each other over the phone and touch themselves. This way, they keep the fire, stay faithful, make memories and satisfy each other from a distance

6. TO HAVE PHONE SEX WITH ANOTHER

Unfortunately, some husbands are exchanging sextexts and calling another woman/women to have phone sex with. They ask for nudes from these women to touch themselves to. In doing so, the husband neglects the wife. A wife can tell when a husband’s sexual attention has shifted

7. THEY ARE HOOKED TO LUST

Some husbands have had years of watching porn. They go to porn sites, are in WhatsApp, Facebook and Instagram Groups and Pages where porn is the order of the day. These lustful images and videos feed their self pleasure acts. Eventually, the lust leads them to making sexual advances on real women

8. THE WIFE DOESN’T SATISFY THEM

Some husbands when they have a rigid wife who sees sex as only for procreation or is not interested in exploring the richness of his pleasure, they touch themselves to make up for the poor performance of the wife. Wives, see to it that you know what your husband likes and please him. Husbands also satisfy your wife because some wives are frequently masturbating due to this

9. TO HURT THE WIFE

Some husbands will masturbate in front of the wife to make her feel bad. They do this because they know it hurts a wife when her naked body is all his but he would rather touch himself. Husbands, don’t play this childish games with sex

10. AS A SEXUAL ACTIVITY WITH THE WIFE

Some couples are experimental, the husband can be rubbing his penis as the wife is playing with his nipples, his balls or his erogenous spots. Or as the husband is pumping in her during doggy, he rubs his nipples. Similarly, as the husband is penetrating, some wives rub their own nipples or clitoris to heighten the pleasure. Whatever makes you happy as a couple

11. THE HUSBAND’S LIBIDO DOESN’T MATCH THE WIFE’S

Some couples have unmatching libido. The husband might be wanting sexual activity more often than the wife. So instead of putting pressure on the wife, he touches himself. Question is husband, as you touch yourself, who are you thinking of? Your wife or another? Honour your wife even in your thoughts

12. CONFLICTS IN MARRIAGE

When a couple has issues, most likely the husband will develop a negative view of the wife. When he has developed a negative view of her, he will struggle to desire her sexually resulting to masturbation to take care of his sexual needs. Instead of being stuck with your hand, why not make peace and resolve issues with your wife?